Understanding Mediation: What to Expect and How We Support You

by | Mar 27, 2025

At Law Elevated, we know that the legal process can feel overwhelming—especially when you’re facing something as deeply personal and emotional as divorce. Mediation is one of those steps that may sound unfamiliar or even intimidating, but it’s actually designed to give you more control over the outcome of your case. And the good news? You won’t be walking into it alone.

What is Mediation?

Mediation is a process where both parties work with a neutral third party—called a mediator—to try to reach a settlement. The mediator doesn’t take sides or make decisions for you. Instead, they move between you and the other party, sharing proposals, relaying concerns, and helping both sides explore options for resolution.

It’s a bit like having a structured conversation through a neutral go-between. The mediator will talk with us, then with the other side, and go back and forth to see if common ground can be found. You’ll hear what the other party is offering, we’ll help you respond with a counter, and so on—until, hopefully, an agreement is reached.

Is Mediation Required?

In most family law cases, the court expects parties to participate in mediation in good faith before moving toward a final trial. However, there are exceptions. In custody-only matters or certain modification cases, mediation may not be required at this time. That said, mediation is still often a valuable and encouraged step—one that gives you a chance to shape the outcome instead of leaving the decision solely in the hands of the court.

Will I Need to Be There?

Yes. Because you are the one making the decisions in mediation—not the court, not the mediator—it’s essential that you’re present. Depending on the mediator, you may attend in person or via Zoom. Either way, you will never be alone. We will be right there by your side—advising, supporting, and advocating for you every step of the way.

At Law Elevated, You’re Not Just Another Case

We understand how deeply personal this process is, and we don’t take that lightly. Our mission is to guide you through each stage with compassion, clarity, and care. Mediation isn’t just a box to check—it’s a meaningful opportunity to be heard, to express what matters most, and to move toward resolution on your terms. And we’ll be there to help you do just that.

Your partner in peace of mind,

Nonie

This material is intended for educational purposes only and does not create an attorney-client relationship or constitute legal advice.

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