No two divorces are the same. Some couples are able to agree on the important details and move forward with mutual respect. Others find themselves in the middle of unresolved conflict, complicated decisions, and legal disagreements. Wherever you are in your journey, one of the first things to understand is the difference between an uncontested and a contested divorce.
Knowing which type of divorce fits your situation can help you make more informed choices and avoid unnecessary stress. At Law Elevated, we guide individuals and families through both paths with clarity, compassion, and practical support. In this post, we’ll break down what each option means, how they differ, and how to start figuring out which one is right for you.
Understanding Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce in Utah
Not every divorce looks the same. Some couples are ready to move forward with mutual respect and cooperation. Others are navigating conflict, mistrust, or complex family dynamics. Wherever you are in the process, knowing the difference between uncontested and contested divorce can help you choose a path that protects your peace of mind.
What Is an Uncontested Divorce?
In an uncontested divorce, both spouses agree on the major terms—custody, support, property division, and any other key decisions. Or, in an uncontested divorce both souses might not agree on major terms yet, but, both spouses are at least committed to keeping their family out of the court system and have a mutual desire to keep the divorce as low conflict as possible. These cases are usually faster, more affordable, and less emotionally taxing. If communication is still intact and both parties are willing to cooperate, this can be a smooth, efficient way to finalize the divorce.
Even in uncontested cases, it’s essential to have legal support. Our team at Law Elevated ensures that your agreements are thorough, enforceable, and in your best interest.
What Is a Contested Divorce?
A contested divorce happens when spouses cannot agree on the major issues, such as:— finances, parenting time, the marital home, alimony, debts, child support, or safety concerns. Contested divorces may be needed if the spouses can no longer communicate, and conflict is high. Or, a contested divorce may be necessary if one party just refuses to agree to the divorce. A contested divorce would push the divorce forward, despite the other spouse’s reluctance. These cases often involve court hearings, document exchanges, and sometimes a trial.
If communication has broken down or if you’re concerned about fairness, safety, or long-term impact, a contested divorce may be the best way to protect your future. At Law Elevated, we guide clients through contested matters with clarity and care, offering strong representation and strategic support.
Key Differences at a Glance
- Agreement: Uncontested divorces are based on mutual agreements between the couple. Contested divorces involve unresolved disputes and at times can result in a Judge making the final decision, instead of the couple.
- Time and Cost: Uncontested cases tend to be quicker and more cost-effective. Contested cases require more time and legal involvement.
- Court Involvement: Minimal to non-existent in uncontested divorces. More extensive in contested ones, with possible hearings and trial.
- Control: Uncontested means you and your spouse stay in control. In contested matters, a judge may make the final call.
Which Option Fits Your Situation?
Ask yourself:
- Can we communicate respectfully?
- Do we agree on the big decisions?
- Is there a power imbalance or history of conflict?
- Are both of us being financially transparent?
- Are we open to compromise?
Your answers can help determine whether a cooperative or more structured legal process is needed.
How Law Elevated Can Help
Whether your case is straightforward or complex, you don’t have to do this alone.
If your divorce is uncontested, we’ll help you finalize agreements with care and efficiency. If your divorce is contested, we’ll advocate for your rights and guide you through each step with strategy and compassion.
At Law Elevated, our goal is simple: to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and the support you deserve. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with one of our experienced family law attorneys.
Your partner in peace of mind,
Law Elevated
This material is intended for educational purposes only and does not create an attorney-client relationship or constitute legal advice.




